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Designing Pleasure Playing Cards

This Deck includes 47 pleasure cards for putting together very intentional plans for intimacy and sexy adventures. There are 6 instructional cards, so you’ll have some ideas for ways to play with them. Or you can create your own rules.

  • A fun way to enhance pleasure with 47 different cards/47 different suggestions
  • Boosts communication skills
  • Multiple ways to play
  • Can be used solo, for couples or in poly erotic adventures
  • Encourages consensual interaction
  • Offers ideas for kinky scenes



In short, it’s a coaching approach for learning more about your sexuality, desires, relationship needs, and issues around sex. It’s about identifying your goals and desires in these areas…and learning how to celebrate AND fulfill those desires.                                                                                                                

It’s not about sweeping away the pains and confusions of the past, but what we do with those feelings through body awareness and transforming self judgement. 

For example:

Do you NOT want to be placed into a gender box? You feel fluid, ever-changing and unique and just need some support to live unapologetically?

Do you need support navigating your newfound turn ons and offs!?

Do you find it difficult to navigate feeling like a victim when you know “it’s an inside job” to not take things so personally?

Do you need help finding the right sexual resources that match your interests?

Have you had to live with medical and social discriminations and/or unwanted procedures because you are Intersex? Are you finding it difficult to obtain sex education information for your body type and desires?


Are you becoming more conscious of how you desire to structure your romantic/sexual relationships in the FIRST place—whether that means more conscious monogamy or some degree of openness, polyamory, or anything in between!—and you now need help communicating and navigating this with everyone involved?


Being outside the norm can be challenging, invigorating and downright terrifying. How DO you find permission to speak or act authentically? How IS that done safely, consensually and with inspiration?

It’s no wonder why you might be feeling this way: society, religion and school environments can often take us away from our true selves through rigid expectations.

However, despite these obstacles and expectations that are baked into our mainstream culture, you CAN create a fulfilling life, which includes your OWN choices around your sexuality, gender expression and relationship dynamics.

And the best part? When you figure out these key pieces of your most intimate life, THAT’s when you’re able to shine your brightest light and offer their greatest gifts to the world!


With compassion and care, I offer that assistance to those who want to transform their lives.

With over five years’ experience as a Certified Sex Coach and Certified Sexologist, I’ve been helping people build strategies to find balance and acceptance within themselves to live unapologetically and passionately.


Book an appointment for your free Discovery Call and find out if  Sex & Gender Coaching is right for you and if we’re a fit!

“The highest task life sets for us is to realize ourselves. Retreating from your life out of fear or a desire to remain comfortable means denying yourself” Gerd Ziegler

For more information, check out my blog post on WHAT IS SEX COACHING!

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